Heartwork’s Anti-Relationship (But still keep the girl) Script
People that know me know that one of the last things I currently want in my life is a serious relationships.
Also being a younger guy I’ve dated a large age group of girls and all the girls my age are always dying to get in a relationship.
Maybe this just happens to me a lot, but I can think of numerous occasions when me and a girl will be having a fantastic time, but all of a sudden, things seem to halt because she wants to know “where this is going?” or “if we are actually boyfriend and girlfriend”
Truth is, I love girls and don’t want to loose one from my life because of forced relationship non-sense, so I have developed a script I say EVERY single time to keep the girl around, but stay out of relationships.
Here it is:
“Listen _(Girls Name)_, I love the time we spend together, we always have a great time. However you need to know that I am not the kind of person that jumps into a relationship. I feel like too many people do that and they end up ruining everything and that is the last thing I want to happen with us. The main reason I feel this way is because when I commit to a relationship, I go all in and I don’t half ass it. So until I feel that I can give the full commitment and give us what our relationship deserves, I just want to continue to have a great time together. Okay? (Small kiss on the lips, pull back, make eye contact, and smile)”
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This shit fuckin works, I have given it to tons of my friends and we all remain happy singles with a huge social circle of girls that want to fuck us.
What is special about it, it makes it seem like by not being in a relationship, you are actually making the relationship between the two of you stronger!
Everyone wins.
Especially you ;)
Good luck!
Love,
Heartwork
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This, like so much about PUArtistry, is basically just leadership. A PUA leads himself: he decides what he wants and leads himself to get it. He leads others, and offers them new choices - in this case, instead of “being in an exclusive relationship or no relationship at all” you have led her to another choice which serves everyone better.